Love and not loving are both hard to hide, even though men will speak sweet words, the truth will be revealed in the details.
Whenever, a woman must keep her eyes open and judge whether a man loves you in time, otherwise, she might end up deeply hurt.
Generally speaking, when a man behaves like this towards you, you can basically conclude that he is pretending to love you, don’t naively think it’s true love.
01: Not willing to spend money on you
There’s a saying: Someone who spends money on you may not love you, but someone who doesn’t spend money on you definitely doesn’t love you.
In love, it’s not just about physical contact, but also numerous moments that need care. Not all love can be measured in terms of money, but some caring gestures must be supplemented with money.
For example, giving the other person something they like on holidays, extending a helping hand when they are in financial difficulty.
Spending money appropriately can add to this relationship, and it can make a woman better feel the man’s love. If a man never wants to spend money on a woman, then it shows that money is his top priority, and this love is not that important to him.
Most women in life don’t want men to spend money on them indiscriminately; they just hope that men can occasionally express affection through money.
Being willing to spend money on a loved one indicates that they care for the other person, otherwise, if they are reluctant to spend money, they are even less likely to make any sacrifices for the other person.
Women should stay clear-headed and not love those stingy men.
In modern society, most women can support themselves, there’s no need to lower their value next to someone who doesn’t love them, this is just self-deception.
02: Unwilling to introduce you to their parents
In a certain variety show, two celebrities who had been in a relationship for a long time were interviewed and asked when they planned to introduce each other to their parents and get married.
The female guest was very excited, planning to introduce to her parents next year and get married the year after, while the male guest remained silent throughout.
His attitude disappointed the female guest greatly, and later, news of their breakup spread, as anticipated by netizens.
True love endures time, resisting the many storms of life, most genuinely loving couples hope to hold hands and get married, introducing each other to parents is also a basic step.
Only men who are playing around would hide from this step; they don’t want a future with the other person, so they won’t invest in it.
Women should open their eyes early, otherwise, they will find that what they have long waited for is just an illusion.
03: Habitually going out of touch
Among the pain of love, women find it hardest to tolerate being ignored by their partner, which seems to suggest they have been abandoned.
In fact, that’s the case.
Just like a line in “He’s Just Not That Into You”: Sometimes, we’d rather believe our partner is too busy or in a bad mood than admit a truth, that he doesn’t care about you.
When someone deeply loves another, they wouldn’t want to keep the other waiting, those who can put their partner aside generally don’t love them that much.
Instead of waiting for a man to occasionally show affection, it’s better to cut losses in time; what we truly need is someone who fills our hearts and eyes.
If that’s not there, it’s better to be alone.
When a man pretends to love a woman, it’s quite obvious, these three behaviors are proof of that.
No matter how much you love the other person, understand that they can’t give you the love you desire, letting go is the best choice.
Believe that someday you’ll meet someone more suitable, that’s when true happiness begins.
