Recently, my friend Xiao He encountered a heartbreaking incident. Her boyfriend turned out to be a real scumbag. He was very kind to her before they got together, always helping her and never saying anything unkind.
But things changed after they were together for a while.
Xiao He is a very kind person, even if she is deceived by the other party, she doesn’t want to expose him. However, when the other party asked her to look at the chat records, Xiao He discovered many ambiguous messages about other girls in his chat records.
When Xiao He questioned him, he just innocently said, “How could I possibly fall in love with someone else?”
This situation made Xiao He very sad, feeling very wronged. Clearly, she gave all her sincerity, so why does the other party seem so indifferent to her?
A man who loves you will always care about you
Many people say that men in love are big “feet-pigs,” they only care about their own feelings and never bother about how the other person is doing.
That’s not entirely true. Women don’t need men who just verbally express care.
A man who truly loves you will always care about you while chatting with you. Knowing you’re not feeling well lately, he will actively ask you how he can make you happy.
He also knows you are tired lately, so he will try to solve your problems.
A man who loves you will show his best side while chatting with you, making you feel relaxed in his presence. Because he knows that being with the person he loves should be easy and joyful.
Love is mutual, a man cannot chat with only one woman. Only a man who truly loves a woman will treat her so well that she feels like the happiest person in the world.
A man who loves you will not pressure you
We all know that love requires effort from both people.
Whether a person loves you or not depends on their attitude towards you.
A man who truly loves you will not pressure you in any way. He will work hard to give you a better life and will not make you feel inferior because of him.
Many women have this thought: “If a man treats me well, he loves me, if a man treats me poorly, he doesn’t love me.”
But you should know, this kind of thinking is completely wrong.
We all know that women are sensitive and fragile in relationships, they are always cautious with the one they love.
They also tend to overthink over little things in life.
If a man doesn’t love you, he surely doesn’t feel secure with you, he doesn’t know what he did to make you sad or upset, or what he did wrong to make you unhappy.
So he will say things that hurt you, indicating that he cares about you. Such men often enjoy maintaining ambiguous relationships with women which they can use to manipulate.
A man who loves you will treat you as his career
Actually, how much a person loves you will be evident in his chat records.
If a man loves you, he will treat you as his career, as his lifelong partner.
When you’re together, he will carefully nurture the relationship, avoiding any regrets.
Even if you occasionally argue, he will apologize to you afterwards.
He will work harder because of the bond between you, and not just think about enjoying the sweetness of love.
He won’t spend all his time playing with his phone anymore, but will gladly make time to be with you.
Love is reciprocal, a man who truly loves you will not only seek his own pleasure.
Therefore, to know if a man truly loves you, observe his attitude towards you while together.
Whether a person really loves you can be seen from the chat records.
