It is often said that “a woman’s heart is as elusive as a needle in the ocean,” but many women also struggle to understand a man’s feelings.
In fact, a man’s love is like a stone thrown into the center of a lake; on the surface, everything appears calm, but layers of ripples have already formed in his heart.
If a man has truly fallen in love, you can see this through the following three points.
01 Heartfelt protection that does not shrink back
Romain Rolland once said, “Love is a great force that can make a person incredibly brave and resolute.”
When a man has truly fallen in love, he will unhesitatingly become the steadfast protector of his beloved, never backing down in the face of any difficulties or challenges.
Love will awaken a man’s deeply rooted protective instinct.
This protective instinct can be said to stem from psychological instinct; when he deeply loves someone, he will see their happiness and safety as his own mission.
Many women are particularly attracted to men who embody both strength and the image of a protector.
Thus, men also crave to prove their value and ability to their loved ones through tangible actions, allowing them to feel safe and reassured.
As described by Yang Jiang in “We Three,” when she has a dispute with someone, Qian Zhongshu will immediately step forward to protect her in his own way.
He does not care about right or wrong; he only cares that his beloved is not wronged.
This unwavering support arises from being in love, and is also an instinct of love.
Heartfelt protection knows no bounds, through storms and hardships love deepens, courageously shouldering responsibility, not fearing thousands of obstacles for her sake.
02 Jealousy arises, possessiveness gets strong
Hugo once said, “In love, jealousy and possessiveness are the thorns hidden behind sweetness.”
When a man truly loves a woman, jealousy and a strong sense of possessiveness often follow.
Jealousy and possessiveness are essentially expressions of a man’s intense concern for and value of love.
When he sees a woman as his one and only, he will remain highly alert to any factors that might threaten this relationship.
This emotional response is not due to distrust of the woman, but stems from a deep fear of losing love.
Especially when he sees other men showing interest or affection towards the woman he loves, his competitive instincts will be triggered, leading to stronger possessiveness and jealousy.
In “Gone with the Wind,” Rhett Butler’s feelings for Scarlett are filled with possessiveness and jealousy.
Every time Scarlett has too much contact with other men, Rhett feels a world of unease and jealousy within himself.
This subtle emotional change precisely reflects his deep affection for Scarlett.
The tide of jealousy surges within, igniting a flame of love that keeps me awake; when feelings run deep, they are hard to hide, fearing only that my beloved may be taken away.
03 Innocent childishness emerges cutely
Alexander Dumas Jr. once said, “When a man falls in love, the child within him is awakened.”
It is said that men become childish in front of the women they love; this is not without reason.
When a man falls in love, he will let go of his usual maturity and steadiness, showing a childlike side, fully displaying his cuteness.
Men all retain a sense of childlike innocence within; however, due to the pressures of daily life and societal roles, this innocence is often hidden.
But when love arrives, men feel incredibly relaxed and at ease in front of the women they love, thus releasing their inner child.
At the same time, showing innocence and childishness in love is also a manifestation of a man’s trust in his partner.
He believes that his lover can accept and appreciate his true self, and will not look down on him because of his childishness.
Chen Xiaochun and Ying Cai’er, a couple, are like this.
The usually cool and suave Chen Xiaochun acts cute and playful in front of Ying Cai’er, showing a completely different side from his movie persona.
This contrast is a true reflection of their sweet love.
Innocent cuteness brings joy to the heart, playing together in love knows no bounds; the mature mask is temporarily stored away, blooming a true self just for you.
Love is a wonderful journey, and the signs of a man falling in love are also rich and varied.
Whether it is the steadfastness of heartfelt protection, the tension of rising jealousy, or the cuteness of innocent childishness, all are expressions of his genuine feelings deep within.
Women, if you have such a man by your side who shows you these unique expressions, consider giving him more response and understanding, and then follow the traces of love step by step.
