Once a woman falls in love, her greatest fear is to encounter an unsuitable partner and to have her sincere feelings misplaced.
When you have set your heart on someone and have given up more possibilities for him, thinking that you can find happiness through him, you invest your whole being and give everything without reservation.
You believe he is your destiny, able to provide you with the happiness you desire, but love has never been a one-sided affair. Many times, no matter how devoted you are, it is of no use; in the eyes of someone who doesn’t love you, your efforts are always worthless.
As Guo Degang once said: “In love, choosing the right person is very important.”
Only later do you understand that love requires mutual effort; enthusiasm without a response should be recognized and moderated.
As a woman, you must understand: no matter how well a man treats you, if he has never given you these four “things,” then he does not truly love you!
01
Money
It is said that to see if a man loves a woman, you should observe whether he is willing to spend money on her.
What men care about are, after all, money and women, and the importance of both in a man’s heart is often equal.
Therefore, when a man is willing to part with money to make you happy or to help you, it undoubtedly shows his sincerity towards you; even if he doesn’t have much savings, his expressions convey abundant love.
Some men may have thousands of savings but are very calculative when it comes to women, tallying every expense. Such men, even if they are wealthy, should not be easily trusted; for them, it may only take a little money to gain your sincere feelings.
How much a man earns is not important; what matters is whether he is willing to give, and what women seek is not the amount of money, but rather a feeling of being loved.
02
Companionship
People often say: “Companionship is the longest confession of love.”
Indeed, if you truly love someone, how could you not accompany her, how could you not give her companionship?
Not accompanying someone can only indicate one problem: either the love is not genuine or not deep enough.
True love enables one to overcome numerous difficulties, and it must provide her with companionship. It does not allow her to be lonely or desolate but instead warms her with actions.
Companionship is a silent protection. Those days spent by her side feel especially warm and secure.
A man who loves you will go to great lengths to be with you, because to him, you are the most important existence.
03
Recognition
Whether in love or marriage, what is the most important thing for a woman?
It is neither companionship nor security, but the most basic recognition.
A man who deeply loves you will certainly disclose your relationship to friends and family; he will actively give you a title, demonstrating that love exists not just in words and feelings, but in actual actions as well.
Conversely, those men who do not provide true feelings might speak sweetly but will hide the relationship, not wanting to give you any recognition. Simply put, they treat you like a backup; no matter what you say, they will not give you a title, indicating that these men clearly do not offer genuine feelings.
In fact, it is not hard to discern whether a man loves you. It’s clear when he hasn’t given you promises or recognition, that it means he does not truly love you.
04
Care
Love is not just sweet words but more about subtle care in actions.
Whether someone truly loves you is best reflected in their care and thoughtfulness.
When you feel tired, he will give you a warm hug, a cup of hot tea, or prepare a delicious dinner for you.
His concern doesn’t stop there; he will offer sincere advice and help when you need it, caring for your health and happiness. When you face difficulties or challenges, he will stand firmly behind you, supporting you and helping you get through tough times.
His care for you does not express itself in extravagant ways but comes from genuine warmth and sincerity.
Because he loves you deeply, he will sincerely take care of you, allowing you to feel his genuine affection for you.
05
Emotional Message
The essence of love is a form of giving.
If a man has never given you recognition, companionship, money, or care, then there is no need to continue.
He does not love you; his thoughts are not on you. Relying solely on your efforts to maintain this relationship is exhausting.
Let go of those who do not deserve you, free your heart, and one day you will find the happiness that belongs to you.
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