I have read a book called “Season Liangchuan, I have loved you for so many years.” In it, there is a phrase: “After loving someone for many, many years, it will become a habit.”
Indeed, loving someone for a long time really becomes a habit. The bits and pieces with them seem to replay like a movie in the mind. Still eating the things they like, wearing the style of clothes they prefer, walking alone on the street but feeling like they are right behind.
Breaking up is always sad, as if a force has drained the last trace of “vitality” from the body.
If the separation is a mutual decision, it will end amicably. But if it’s only one person’s idea, the other person, unable to let go, will act in these 4 ways after breaking up with you!
01
Seeing you again, the eyes still turn red
After the breakup, a man who still holds you in his heart may need a lot of time to heal. He might be trying to heal himself secretly during a certain period, pretending to be fine.
Sometimes, even when meeting your friends, he can pretend everything’s fine and greet them properly.
But when unexpectedly encountering you on the street or seeing you at a friend’s gathering, his eyes will still linger on you, quietly watching and observing you. He may even tear up when alone.
Seeing you doing well, he feels relieved but also a bit sad realizing you can still be fine without him.
02
Inquiring about you from your friends
Even though once seen as a perfect match by others, you two drifted apart.
Deep down, he finds it hard to accept this. Despite at times finding your actions annoying, with you no longer around, he feels an emptiness, terribly unaccustomed.
Post-breakup, it’s inconvenient to contact each other directly, so sometimes we seek information via mutual acquaintances. It could be indirect inquiries during conversations or directly asking for updates.
If a man post-breakup inquires about you from your friends, it shows he hasn’t let go and wonders if you’re also hurting over the separation.
03
Drunk dialing you
People say alcohol doesn’t intoxicate, it’s the person who becomes intoxicated. When a man’s heart is heavy, he’d turn to alcohol to numb himself, as if falling asleep can resolve everything.
However, alcohol only offers temporary relief, not a permanent solution. It temporarily helps forget the heartache.
If a man, after getting drunk, habitually contacts you, talking about the past and hinting at a reunion, he’s not really drunk. He’s speaking his heartfelt thoughts under the influence, also subtly seeking reconciliation.
Men don’t easily bow down; for him to express such emotions post-breakup shows a significant compromise.
04
Continuing to initiate contact
Men don’t stay connected to an ex without a reason unless the feelings are deep. In other words, only when a man still harbors strong emotions for you, he’ll frequently initiate contact post-breakup.
He’d actively show concern for your life through various means, perhaps sending a “good night” message on WeChat every evening.
Even after the breakup, he wouldn’t sever ties easily. Because he genuinely loved you, he can’t resist reaching out, conversing with you, showcasing his presence before you.
Due to his deep past love, he fears being forgotten post-breakup.
05
Final emotions
Love can make a person complete.
Breaking up marks the end of a relationship, not the feelings. It can bring varying degrees of pain for everyone, especially when it was a deep, sincere love; it’s hard to completely let go of each other.
But since you have parted ways, learn to let go. If you truly love each other, live happily, and believe that seeing you happy, even without him, will genuinely bring blessings from him.
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