Pessoa said:
Love is to miss someone; I almost forgot how to feel, just because I am thinking of him.
Love, accompanied by longing, grows silently.
On every day when I cannot see him, his figure will inevitably appear, not by my side, but in my heart.
When a man misses you deeply, he will have some uncontrollable behaviors; when feelings run deep, it is hard to control, please forgive his abruptness.
No matter who he looks at, it always reminds him of you.
When a man misses a woman, he often experiences illusions.
On the street, in every place he visits, he tends to see other people as her.
It is actually because he misses her too much; he assigns feelings to others, and is reminded of her.
A figure from behind, long hair, someone with a similar build, he will look for her shadow among these people.
Hearing a song will remind him of the scene when they listened to it together.
Every scene he passes, every place he has been to, will make him fantasize about what it would be like to be with her.
No matter where he is or what he is doing, he will unwittingly think of you and look forward to the scene of you being by his side.
It may sound a bit crazy, but this only proves how deep his love is for you and how genuine his feelings are.
Longing to the bone, forgetting oneself. Seeing everyone reminds him of you, and he is constantly thinking of you in his heart.
There will be some unusual words and actions.
Longing to the bone can bring out completely different aspects of a person.
For instance, if a man is usually quiet, he may suddenly become clingy and unusually active, sending you messages non-stop.
Once, after not seeing my husband for a week, he, who usually doesn’t talk much, kept messaging me, asking what I was doing, updating me on his whereabouts, sharing snippets of his daily life.
For instance, he might not often say sweet things, but he will start to speak some cheesy romantic lines to you.
He may not consume alcohol, but when longing can’t be relieved anywhere else, he might use alcohol to express his feelings.
Then, under the influence of alcohol, he reveals a side of him you’ve never seen before.
When longing floods the heart, it occupies one’s mind, breaks one’s will, and changes a person’s words and actions.
No matter how rational a man is, in front of someone he really likes, he can become very impulsive; love can change a person and let you witness the change in him.
Missing you will instantly bring him to you.
In the TV drama “Xiao Min’s Home,” the love between Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiao Min in middle age can also be very sweet.
At first, the two secretly start a romance, like young lovers experiencing love for the first time.
They meet secretly, running out for dates while the children are asleep, still needing to see each other.
When Chen Zhuo wants to see her, he won’t hide it but will directly tell her to meet him downstairs of her building.
Even when they argue, the thought of wanting to see her will flash through his mind, and he will drop everything to rush to Xiao Min’s house.
A man who loves you takes action; a man who misses you cannot bear even a second of separation.
He only thinks about seeing her immediately, wanting to stay together, finding peace only when he sees you.
If a man misses you, he will do everything to see you; just a moment ago, he said he missed you, and then he appears right in front of you, giving you a surprise.
This kind of impatience is a genuine response to overwhelming feelings.
