The little goat asked the little deer, in relationships, what kind of things will a man give you if he doesn’t want to lose you? A simple understanding is, how will a man treat you in this situation?
The little deer said, actually, if we truly love someone, we all fear losing each other. This is human nature. From a woman’s perspective, if you observe carefully, you will naturally notice the signs.
The little goat asked, can you be more specific?
The little deer said, if a man doesn’t want to lose you, he will give you three things that women should understand.
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A sense of security in the emotional aspect, such as giving you devoted love.
The little deer said, this is the most basic guarantee. From a man’s perspective, he knows in his heart that he must provide you with the corresponding sense of security. Many women lack security in relationships and are often suspicious. Since a man doesn’t want to lose you, he will not make you feel suspicious.
The little goat said, but sometimes a woman’s suspicions have nothing to do with the man; it’s her own overthinking.
The little deer said, that’s true. But from a man’s perspective, if he is genuinely devoted in the relationship, it can actually reduce the level of suspicion. If understood this way, a man’s actions will have an effect.
The little goat said, yes. It seems that first, the man has to do his part well. Instead of worrying about what the woman thinks, he should first focus on doing what he should do.
The little deer said, that’s the point. In relationships, we must first do well ourselves. Only then can you truly give the other person that sense of security.
The little goat said, from a man’s perspective, if he achieves this point now, he will also feel more confident inside.
The little deer said, that’s right. Therefore, men must earnestly focus on this aspect. We not only need to achieve it, but the key is to consistently maintain it. Only then will it be effective.
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A relative economic guarantee that can support your life together.
The little deer said, if a man genuinely loves you and doesn’t want to lose you, he must understand that the economic foundation determines the superstructure. If the relationship loses its economic foundation, it will not last long. This is something a man must be aware of.
The little goat said, that’s true. Some men do love this woman very much, but they lack ability and economic capacity. In the end, the woman might still choose to leave.
The little deer said, this is a very realistic issue. From a man’s perspective, you cannot expect women to understand this. If you cannot provide a woman with a better life guarantee, she has the right to leave. You cannot blame her for that.
The little goat said, yes. A relationship without an economic base is just a mess.
The little deer said, anyway, this is something that everyone should understand. Of course, excluding the requirements of materialistic women, most women just need a simple life. At least it shouldn’t be too lacking.
The little goat said, that’s the reasoning. It is evident that it still relies on men to work hard.
The little deer said, only when a man’s economic ability is sufficient will he have confidence. Otherwise, it’s all in vain.
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Continuously improving oneself to become more capable and give you hope for the future.
The little deer said, men must always remember that no matter how you think, you must have ability. This is something that can only be achieved through your own efforts. Once you have the ability, you can keep the woman you love. If you don’t want to lose her, but you don’t make an effort and lack ability, then there’s nothing you can do.
The little goat said, that’s true. A woman cannot be with someone who has no hope…
