When women choose a partner, they should consider how a man respects his ex, how polite he is to the opposite sex, and the positivity of his friend circle. A good partner should be broad-minded, have vision, and respect others. Choosing a partner requires a comprehensive evaluation of their behavior, attitude, and character.
Men want to be with a “clean” woman, and women feel the same way. Women also fear encountering a “player” in relationships.
However, during interactions between men and women, intentions are not explicitly written on their faces, so if one cannot discern carefully, it is easy to fall into a “trap.”
For women, knowing whether a man is a good man worth dating is not about his appearance, but about considering the following three aspects.
-01. Look at his attitude towards his ex
As the saying goes, “breakups reveal character.” A man’s attitude towards his ex often reflects his character and vision.
If a man continues to speak ill of his ex after their breakup and even slanders or curses her in front of others, then such a man has a narrow mindset and poor character.
Because two people who have truly loved each other, even after breaking up, will not harbor resentment towards each other, nor will they completely deny the beauty of their past.
On the contrary, if a man can still maintain respect for his ex after their breakup, refraining from slander or cursing, and even lend a helping hand when she is in need, then such a man is truly broad-minded and has vision.
Being with such a man, you don’t have to worry about him speaking ill of you after a breakup, because he understands the importance of respecting every relationship and cherishes every connection.
-02. Look at his attitude towards the opposite sex
A man’s attitude towards the opposite sex often reflects his upbringing and character.
Some men are always able to maintain a gentlemanly demeanor when facing women, respecting them and avoiding any actions that might make them uncomfortable.
On the other hand, some men like to criticize women or make frivolous gestures.
These two distinctly different attitudes actually reflect two different kinds of character and upbringing.
The former understands how to respect others and naturally earns their respect; the latter, however, only incites dislike and avoidance from others.
Therefore, to know whether a man is good or bad, just observe his attitude towards the opposite sex. A truly well-mannered man will maintain basic politeness and respect regardless of who he is with.
-03. Look at his friends
Birds of a feather flock together. To understand a man, just take a look at his friends.
If a man is surrounded by positive, uplifting people who bring emotional value, then he is likely also someone who can bring emotional value to others.
Conversely, if a man is surrounded by people who constantly complain and are filled with negativity, then he might also be influenced by these emotions, becoming negative and pessimistic.
Similarly, if a man’s friends are all players, enjoying casual flings, then under such influence, he may also regard such casualness in relationships as normal and may not take love seriously.
A person’s circle of friends often reflects their attitude towards life and values. Therefore, if you want to understand a man, it might be helpful to first know his friends.
Good love requires mutual effort and management. In the process of finding a partner, one should not only listen to their words but also observe their actions.
By observing his attitude towards his ex, his attitude towards the opposite sex, and his friends, we can have a more comprehensive understanding of whether this man is worth associating with.
After all, love is not a game; choosing a good partner is choosing a way of life.
So, before deciding to be with someone, please make sure to keep your eyes open and discern carefully.
Love can be blind, but the person choosing love should be clear-headed. When selecting a partner, one should not only consider the appearance or be swayed by sweet words, but also judge his character and vision through his actions and attitudes.
A man truly worth dating should be broad-minded, have vision, and know how to respect others.
Such a man will not harbor resentment towards his ex but will maintain respect and blessings; he will not be frivolous or rude towards the opposite sex but will display gentlemanly conduct; and will have his own standards and principles when choosing friends.
When you encounter such a man, you should treasure and cherish him.
Original Title: To see if a man is good or not, it’s not about his appearance, but about these three aspects.
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