Compared to abroad, we have always been regarded as “only understood, not to be verbalized” on matters and topics about sex in our lives. Even between married couples who have been married for many years, it is difficult to naturally communicate their feelings and experiences in marital life. So when problems arise in marital life, people often care more about the surface and do not express their true thoughts, ignoring each other’s true feelings.
Mr. Wu said he has had erectile dysfunction issues for four or five years, no problem when watching educational videos. He said he likes to see weaker girls. However, he has always been watching secretly, after all, he is quite shy. But the problem lies here, his own obstacles stem from such things. Once accidentally discovered by his wife, he was called disgusting, occasionally brought up repeatedly, which led to him developing a psychological shadow. Worse things happened, he could no longer feel or react in front of his wife.
Tong Songzhen said that the lack of knowledge in sex and then being discovered can become the cause of many problems in many cases. This situation is quite common.
Therefore, for Tong Songzhen, a sex therapist is more like a life inspector. It helps families and couples with such problems to carefully identify problems in their lives and truly resolve such issues.
