“Love is a choice, when you realize you have missed the beginning of love.”
Many people think that love is about giving, as long as you are together, you will always give to each other.
Such thinking is not wrong, but giving too much can become a burden.
When together, you should love each other in the right way. If you love someone but don’t know how to love, you will only blindly give and accommodate.
Men’s love for women often starts from looks, falls for talents, and stays for character.
However, over time, a man’s attention towards a woman may decrease. In this process, many problems may arise between the two.
When a man cuts off contact with you, don’t just try to find him. The best approach at this time is three words: “give him space”.
Give him space to feel your disappointment
Many women make a mistake in relationships like this:
When a man cuts off contact, she keeps reaching out to him, wanting him to know her feelings. But if the man has already decided to leave, no amount of contacting him will change his mind.
Many times, men cut off contact because they have already made up their minds to leave.
At this point, women can refrain from contacting him and choose to give him space.
With this approach, you’re telling the man: I don’t need any response from you. Since I’ve decided to leave, there’s no need to contact him anymore.
Some women, upon seeing a man cut off contact, immediately try all sorts of ways to keep him. But in reality, the man already has thoughts of leaving at this point.
What women need to do is: stop reaching out to him and let him feel your disappointment.
Once he feels your disappointment, he will gradually distance himself.
Give him space, offer him a way out
“Getting angry is punishing yourself for someone else’s mistake.”
If a man makes a mistake in front of you, and you keep forgiving him blindly, then later, you may constantly get angry with him for a single mistake.
At this point, his attitude towards you worsens, and the feelings between you two also fade. After all, no one wants to be constantly nagged.
So, the best approach at this time is to give him space. Offer him a way out, let him realize his mistake on his own.
When a man comes home and takes out his anger on you after facing issues outside, if you try to communicate with him again, it will make him even angrier.
Therefore, when a man comes back after facing problems outside and seeks you out, you must offer him a way out. This way, he’ll realize his mistake and take the initiative to correct it.
Because in a man’s eyes, if he’s wrong, he should admit it and correct it himself.
Give him space, let him know your importance
The purpose of giving him space is not to make the man more miserable, but to make him realize your importance.
For a man, he definitely wants to be very important to a woman. When he cuts off contact with you, you need to let him know that you are also very important to him.
There’s a friend who had a great relationship with her boyfriend. However, once her boyfriend said something hurtful that made her very upset.
Her boyfriend said, “I’m good to you, but you don’t appreciate me.”
This hurt her deeply, and problems arose between them. She didn’t understand why she got such results after putting in so much effort.
Later, she realized, instead of usual venting to her boyfriend, she chose a simple method: “give him space”.
When the man cut off contact, she didn’t chat or message him as before. Instead, she calmed down, thought about the problems between them.
During this time of giving him space, she not only made her boyfriend aware of his mistake but also regained his heart.
