“What does he want?” “What is he aiming for?”
In the world of love, women often feel anxious because they cannot decipher what men truly “want,” continuously asking themselves various questions in their minds.
In fact, what men “want” is often hidden in the subtle details of life, which is a direct and heartfelt revelation of their inner feelings.
01 Wanting to share life’s little moments with you
Sharing every moment of life is the most delicate expression of love.
When a man is filled with thoughts of you, he will naturally share every subtle moment of his life with you.
As Wang Xiaobo wrote to Li Yinhe: “You and I are like two little children, surrounding a mysterious jar of jam, tasting it little by little, seeing how sweet it is inside.”
This shared appreciation of life’s details is the sweet flavor of love.
A man who holds you in his heart will send you a brief yet warm message during his busy workdays, letting you know his thoughts at that moment.
It might be a cloud he sees outside the window that reminds him of the time you walked together; or it could be a delicious meal at noon that makes him look forward to tasting it with you.
Because in his heart, you are the one who can make the ordinary extraordinary, the one who fills the mundane with warmth.
Sharing is not just the transmission of information; it is also an exchange of feelings and dependence.
When a man is willing to share his experiences, thoughts, and feelings with you without reservation, it means he considers you his emotional home.
Only when you occupy a place in his heart does he desire your participation and response, hoping you can experience the joys and sorrows of life together with him.
When a man shares, love is hidden within. Every detail speaks, and on the path of love, you wander together.
02 Wanting to invest time and energy for you
Time is the touchstone of love, while energy is the measure of true feelings.
A man who truly cares about you will undoubtedly invest his precious time and energy in you without hesitation.
He won’t always use busyness as an excuse to overlook your presence and needs. Even when work is hectic, he will find ways to carve out time to be with you.
On weekends, he would gladly stay home with you, watching a heartwarming movie or preparing a sumptuous dinner together.
When you are not feeling well, he will set aside everything to care for you, making you feel his meticulous concern.
Time and energy are limited and precious resources for everyone.
When a man is willing to prioritize these limited and valuable resources for you, it shows that you hold a crucial place in his heart.
His willingness to give up some personal entertainment and relaxation time for you indicates that he believes the satisfaction and happiness derived from being with you far exceed what anything else can offer.
This giving is a silent confession, far more powerful than a thousand words.
When a man is willing to give, his heart is not lost. Time and energy devoted, love is eternally protected.
03 Wanting to plan a future with you
Though the road ahead is long, having you means having direction.
As Jose promised Sanmao: “Every time I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, forming the Sahara from then on.”
This yearning and dedication to the future are filled with endless love.
When a man has determined in his heart that you are the one, he will surely look forward to painting a blueprint for the future with you.
He will earnestly discuss lifestyle, career development, and family planning with you.
He will consider where to establish your warm home, how to create a good growing environment for children, and even envision life after retirement with you.
He will firmly say: “Dear, I plan to get a promotion and a raise in a few years, to provide better living conditions for us.”
He will also excitedly describe: “Baby, when we grow old, let’s go to a quiet little town and live leisurely.”
These plans for the future are not hollow fantasies but rather his vow to walk through life with you.
Planning for the future requires courage and determination, as well as a firm belief in your relationship.
When a man is willing to plan the future with you, it means he has enough confidence in your feelings, believing that you can overcome the various difficulties that may arise.
When a man talks about the future, true feelings are surging within. Hand in hand, moving forward together, happiness will always be present.
