In love, many people have said a phrase, “Men are meant to coax, women are meant to be cherished.”
In relationships, many girls are often delighted by a man’s coaxing, a small surprise can keep them happy for a long time.
However, some men are different; they approach relationships seriously, but their love is not genuine.
In love, you can distinguish whether a man is genuine or insincere.
“My mom asked me to come home for dinner.”
“My mom asked me to come home for dinner,” this phrase is like a curse, making many girls afraid to return home. In the early stages of relationships, many girls are cautious, fearing being abandoned, so they share everything with their partners.
If a man treats you as the only one during the relationship but changes after getting you, being hot and cold, showing no reaction when you contact him, then he might not truly love you.
A man who is hot and cold towards you might not genuinely love you. Such a man might just see you as an option, wanting to give up once he has obtained you. Therefore, women should not hold on to hope with such men.
Genuinely loving someone means being unwilling to see them sad. If you find a man being hot and cold towards you, talking to other women, he might not truly love you.
“Look, my mom introduced me to a girlfriend.”
Xiao Qian had a boyfriend during college, and he was her first love. They were together for two years, but the boyfriend was always afraid to reveal his identity. Every time they met, he had to hide it from his mother.
Even though Xiao Qian liked this man, she understood that she was just a regular student, so she decided to let him stabilize first. Xiao Qian kept it to herself because she knew she wasn’t his best choice at the moment. They broke up after graduating from college.
After the breakup, Xiao Qian started working, and she didn’t contact him again. She was waiting for him to come back because she knew she hadn’t forgotten him yet.
One day, Xiao Qian met that man at a party with his girlfriend. He told Xiao Qian that he had already known about their relationship, but his mother had introduced him to a girlfriend, so he didn’t have the courage to speak up.
After hearing the man’s words, Xiao Qian smiled and said, “It’s okay, your mom introduced you to a girlfriend, right? Let’s just treat this as a joke.”
“You are my whole world.”
“You are my whole world, I want to give you the whole world.” This line is from the TV series “A Love So Beautiful”, many envy such love and their happiness. However, saying this line might sound unrealistic because in life, we have many things to do, time is limited, but he can stay by your side forever.
When a man in front of you says, “You are my whole world,” he truly sees you as his whole world. In his heart, you are the closest person, he’s willing to give up everything for you, to be with you forever.
That’s how love is, striving to become better for her, willing to give her the best because that’s what he wants to give her. Even if the other person doesn’t have much money or things to offer, as long as they are by your side, it’s enough.
