For women, marriage is their own piece of heaven, and men are their support. Therefore, many sisters have truly sacrificed and endured a lot in their lives for such a piece of heaven and such support.
Women are emotional beings. Once they deeply love someone, they can unconditionally give for love and can be humble for love, even if they often feel wronged.
However, in relationships, the more women do this, the more passive they may become. Especially, they should avoid the following things; the more you do, the less welcome you will be by men:
First, don’t be too good to men.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but men are very strange creatures. Once you are too good to them, they may not take you seriously. They will feel superior to you and act arrogantly in your presence.
Of course, not all men are like this, but in most cases, men behave this way, which may be a weakness of human nature. So, no matter how much you love your man, don’t be too good to him; just enough will do. If you are too good, he may become disoriented and spoiled, leading to him liking you less and less.
Second, don’t be too frugal with yourself.
For a family, it is always the women who manage the household. If the woman is capable, the family will thrive.
Many women become very skilled at managing their lives after marriage, constantly thinking about daily necessities, and they learn to be thrifty.
However, will such good women be cherished and valued by men? In fact, many men do not treat such good women well. They may even believe that women should act this way, and over time, they could grow tired of it, thinking that outside women seem to be more glamorous.
Therefore, women should not be too frugal in their daily lives; they need to learn to treat themselves better. If you want to be beautiful, be beautiful. Wear what you should wear and dress yourself up. Otherwise, if you restrict yourself to the point of becoming a worn-out woman, in the end, your own man might look down on you even more. What’s the point?
Third, don’t be too tolerant in marriage.
When two people live together, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements, friction, or even quarrels; things happen, and once it’s over, let it be.
However, if a man often yells at you or even hits you, that cannot be tolerated under any circumstances. Don’t endure it for the sake of the children or for face-saving.
Many times, the more you choose to endure in marriage, the more a man might bully you and the less he values you. The weakness of human nature is that those who are soft are often bullied by the strong. Don’t you think?
——Dear Shange, offering advice for love, I am Shange——
