Host | Night Uncle
Thank you for listening to tonight’s evening listening before sleep. I am Night Uncle, waiting for you here at nine o’clock in the evening!
In modern society, women have become more independent and powerful, having more choices to realize their ideals. Therefore, many women are reluctant to show their vulnerable side, even considering vulnerability as a form of failure and surrender.
However, in love, being too aggressive as a woman may diminish the sense of presence of men, leading to a gradual crisis in their emotional connection. The secret to making a man cherish you for a long time is actually just two words. Let’s experience tonight’s evening listening before sleep together!
【Understanding】
Middle-aged men, like a mountain peak, bear the heavy pressures of family and career, each step appearing steady and difficult. They are leaders, employees, and partners outside, but fathers, husbands, and sons at home.
The interweaving of multiple identities forces them to wear a strong mask and conceal their inner exhaustion. However, beneath this tough exterior, they also need a gentle harbor.
【Self-Love】
To make a man love you for a long time, it’s not through self-sacrifice but by maintaining your character, pleasing yourself, enriching your inner self, and becoming a more independent and outstanding person.
As you become more confident and charming, you naturally attract the attention of men and make him fall for you.
In a relationship, mutual attraction is always the foundation. Reciprocating, giving and receiving, mutual effort is the key to maintaining balance and ensuring a long-lasting relationship.
【Indifference】
What does it mean to love someone too much? In the words of Eileen Chang, “When she saw him, she became very low, low to the dust, but her heart was joyful, blooming flowers from the dust.” Love is such a thing; no matter how proud and calm you are in front of others, coming before him, you instantly become a soft-hearted woman willing to set everything aside and only wish to be nestled in his arms.
However, the more you keep giving, the more insignificant you appear in the eyes of the other. Like a child raised with love and indulgence, he eventually doesn’t know how to turn back and show compassion.
Tonight’s goodnight song prepared for everyone for evening listening before sleep is “Little” by Joey Yung, dedicated to those who have the fate to listen!
What Night Uncle wants to say is that women need to nurture love carefully. By mastering the right methods, love can continue to grow and spread.
Women need to skillfully use their tenderness to captivate a man’s heart firmly. By giving him a sense of value and triggering his protective instincts, a woman can receive a man’s lasting cherish.
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