Some people say that love is the most beautiful thing in the world, capable of healing and bringing happiness to an individual.
Yes, each of us is filled with beautiful fantasies and expectations about love, hoping for a wonderful romance, meeting a great person, and walking hand in hand until old age.
However, relationships are never smooth sailing; we always encounter various problems on the way, and these issues can significantly impact our feelings.
Some people understand and compromise with each other, finding the ideal way of getting along. Others prefer to prioritize themselves, solely wanting to lead a good life.
Therefore, some people persevere, while others change their minds midway and leave when the time is right.
Therefore, in a relationship, women should know that when a man wants to leave you, he will treat you in these 5 ways, so stop foolishly trying to hold on!
01
He becomes increasingly impatient in your presence
When a man truly wants to leave you, he will become more and more impatient and irritable towards you. Conversely, if he genuinely likes you, he will take care of you more diligently than anyone else.
Initially, when you went out together, he would always help you carry your shopping bags, but now, he doesn’t care whether the clothes you choose are nice or not. He is solely focused on his phone, complaining about how tiring shopping is until you hastily end today’s outing.
Who will have patience with you? The answer is someone who loves you.
At the beginning of the relationship, he would wait patiently downstairs while you spent more than an hour doing makeup. Now, he starts complaining about how long you take to do your makeup. Be cautious during these impatient behaviors, as they are signs that he wants to leave.
02
Starting to set financial boundaries with you
A man’s heart lies where his money is.
A man who loves you will willingly spend money on you, making every effort to fulfill your desires. Seeing your smile brings him great satisfaction.
Men feel accomplished when they spend money on women they love. However, when a man decides to leave you, he becomes stingy, starting to set financial boundaries with you. He may not even be willing to spend a small amount for you.
Because in his mind, you are no longer worth it. So, don’t persist in trying to hold on because once a man decides to leave, there is no use in trying to win him back.
03
Frequent criticism, fault-finding, and bringing up the past
A man who loves you will cherish you and wouldn’t criticize you.
Men tend to be tolerant of your shortcomings. Even when you make mistakes or show weaknesses, a man in love will still deeply care for you.
A man who wants to grow old with you will be endlessly forgiving. On the contrary, when a man wants to leave you, he will find fault with you, become less accommodating, show no interest in your matters, frequently neglect you, and lack patience when you seek his help.
At the same time, he will criticize you, embarrass you, bring up old issues, and become impatient when you make mistakes. These behaviors indicate his lack of interest in you.
04
Rejecting intimacy with you
In a relationship, physical intimacy is the glue of emotions.
Therefore, physical distance is the most straightforward sign. When a man wants to leave you, his immediate reaction is to distance himself physically from you.
Have you ever wondered when was the last time he held your hand while walking? When was the last time he lovingly touched your head? When was the last time he sat on the couch hugging you while watching TV? When was the last time he said “I love you” to you?…
When a man no longer loves you and wants to leave, he will reject intimate behaviors with you.
05
Becoming distant in communication
When a man wants to leave you, he loses the desire and patience to communicate with you.
He will gradually distance himself from you or even start ignoring you. If there are no urgent matters, he won’t actively ask to meet. He won’t initiate contact or messages with you.
When you reach out to him, he will take a long time to reply with just a few sentences, claiming he is busy and doesn’t have time to respond. Or, when you excitedly write a long message, he simply replies with a casual “Oh” or “Hmm.”
Communication between you suddenly becomes one-sided, with you initiating all contact. Even if you try not to contact him out of frustration, he won’t reach out to you either.
06
Message of emotion
The writer Yi Shu said, “People’s hearts turn cold day by day, leaves turn yellow day by day, stories gradually reach their conclusion, and love also evolves from intense to indifferent.”
When a man loves you, he is passionate, but when he stops loving you and is preparing to leave, he becomes indifferent, treating you in these 4 ways, disregarding the emotions between you.
Therefore, as a woman, be clear-minded; if a man starts behaving exceptionally in many details, he wants to leave you.
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